<DIV class=main> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">,</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我反而覺得這樣不錯</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">!</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">自得其樂不是很好嗎</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">?</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">為何要隨著其他人的喜怒哀樂起舞</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">?</SPAN></SPAN></P><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman"> </SPAN></SPAN> <BR></DIV> <P><A name=more></A></P> <DIV class=main> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">有人問我:「怎麼看起來不開心</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">?</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">」</SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我回答:「我一向都這樣</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">,</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">沒有什麼開不開心的。」</SPAN></P><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman"> </SPAN></SPAN> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我知道我的脾氣很不好</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">,</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">容易被激怒。所以現在當我快發脾氣或是沒有耐性的時候</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">,</SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我都會告訴自己「不要發脾氣」、「要忍耐」。</SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">也許這樣做</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">,</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">可以多多少少改善一下我那沒有剩下多少的人際關係。至少</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">,</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不要製造緊張的狀態吧</SPAN><SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman">!</SPAN></SPAN></P></DIV>